Pay attention, I don’t find out about your loved ones, however mine virtually lives on streaming apps. Decide ya mama.
Not solely am I an leisure author, which is partially why now we have nearly each streaming platform that’s ever been created (sure, my pockets take successful each month, it’s a bittersweet feeling) — however we additionally simply actually, actually love watching films and TV exhibits.
And since Covid has been looming within the air for what appears like an infinite period of time (am I the one one who’s misplaced depend?), films and TV exhibits have change into extra essential than ever.
Household film night time occurs each week now.
It’s change into my daughter’s most favourite method to spend time with our household, who regardless of residing in the identical residing quarters, all the time really feel like we’re on fully completely different planets all through the week.
We type of all dance to the beat of our personal drum, know what I’m saying?
However over the previous few months, I’ve magically discovered the way to please my complete household, even when our tastes are so completely different.
Films like “Jingle Jangle”, “In The Heights”, “Jungle Cruise”, “The Loud Home” and even “Paw Patrol: The Film” have all been nice for us. And naturally my daughter has already seen Hamilton just a few thousand occasions, so something with Lin-Manuel Miranda concerned is an on the spot hit for her now.
So once we discovered that Lin-Manuel had one more film popping out this yr on Netflix, we instantly added it to our watch record. That was about two weeks in the past, and now …
My 9-year-old daughter can’t cease watching “Vivo” on Netflix.
For those who’re not already conversant in Netflix’s new household movie, “Vivo”, it’s an animated musical journey that follows a musically gifted kinkajou (aka a rainforest “honey bear”) by the identical identify. As Vivo embarks on the journey of a lifetime to ship a music to his cherished proprietor’s long-lost love, he finds a spunky, outspoken little woman named Gabi, who makes it her mission to assist him, whether or not he desires it or not.
When my daughter’s not watching the precise film on Netflix, she’s watching the music movies on YouTube, or dancing to the soundtrack within the bathe.
Usually, this conduct drives me insane.
This “I’ve gotta watch this film, once more, and once more, and AGAIN” makes me loopy!
We’ve got nearly each streaming app, and also you’re telling me you’re gonna watch that factor we simply watched, once more? Are you tryna waste my cash, sis? Are you able to please watch one thing else? I don’t pay for all these goddamn streaming apps JUST for yo’ ass to take a seat right here and watch the identical god rattling film each goddamn day rattling it.
In fact, I can by no means really say that out loud, so I have a tendency to simply cringe by means of it, with my headphones on full blast so I don’t have to listen to her chortle time and again on the identical jokes, or hear her insanely loud screeching as she hits rewind time and again and once more — and, you guessed it, once more — to be taught the phrases of her favourite songs.
Pay attention, I’m sorry (not likely) however nobody desires to listen to that shit!
She doesn’t have the reward of voice. And you may say “she will get it from her mama” … that’s alright with me. We each love music, however we will’t sing. These are the dusty playing cards we’ve been dealt, from God, or The Universe, whichever one you consider in, and that’s simply the way in which it’s.
I don’t really feel that very same dying ache inside when she watches “Vivo”!
And it’s a breath of contemporary air to lastly be capable of dance and luxuriate in a film the way in which my daughter does.
Truthfully I’m the “one and executed” sort in terms of watching issues. I take in as a lot as I can the primary time round, after which I discover one thing new. So this “rewatching” factor is new to me.
But it surely feels so good!
Not solely as a result of “Vivo” is a tremendous film, and Ynairaly Simo, who performs Gabi, is really unbelievable. Like completely, positively the most effective animated character there ever was, unbelievable! Neither is it the truth that one in every of my absolute fave actors, Brian Tyree Henry, can be in “Vivo”.
It additionally has nothing to do with Missy Elliot penning my favourite music, “My Personal Drum”, which is in fact carried out splendidly by Ynairaly.
Okay, so perhaps it has slightly to do with Missy Elliot. All the pieces she does is dope!
But it surely’s additionally as a result of, as a single mother who’s at present attempting to construct her personal enterprise at dwelling from scratch so I can keep at dwelling with my daughter, issues have been laborious during the last two years.
There’s not every week that goes by the place I don’t stress over having sufficient cash to cowl payments. Or take into consideration how we actually want to maneuver out, as a result of having three robust, unbiased Black ladies below one roof simply isn’t as enjoyable because it sounds. Or how I want my daughter had her personal room, so we will argue weekly about her not holding it clear or no matter.
Then there’s the nervousness of sending her again to high school, with Covid nonetheless knocking on doorways, in search of a brand new dwelling to slither into.
So I’m always working and worrying, day and night time, hoping issues will get higher. And having the ability to pause work for even just a few seconds, simply to bounce with my daughter or sing the songs in “Vivo”, means absolutely the world to me.
As a result of for these few seconds, the world and its troubles soften away, and it’s simply us. Joyful. Smiling. Laughing. Residing.
And generally that’s sufficient.